At our parish reconciliation service last Thursday, we used this examination of conscience based upon the famous reading from 1 Corinthians 13 written by St Paul -
When have I not been patient?
When have I not been kind?
Have I been jealous?
Have I been pompous or impressed with myself?
Has my attitude caused pain in others?
Do I put my own interests before everything else?
Am I quick-tempered and judging of others?
Do I hold grudges?
Do I take pleasure when someone else falls down?
Do I show love in everything I do?